Whether you call it moral or sacred, spiritual or common sense, a truly successful relationship is guided by one question — “What would love do now?
It’s not “What’s in it for me?” And it’s not “How can I manipulate to get more than my share?” And it’s never “I’ll go without to prove my love.” Love only wants what will be in both of your best interests. To define love in action, it couldn’t be any other way.
You see, love is an equal opportunity verb. It loves by doing — so when true love is present both of you are actively giving and receiving. Never just giving, refusing the gifts of love to feign modesty, to avoid embarrassment or discomfort. No, love has us accept what is given to us graciously and with heartfelt respect for the gift of the giver.
At the same time, love requires that we see who the other person is and give in ways that are best suited to that person. It’s not what we think they should have, it’s what will fulfill the other person’s needs and desires.
Love never puts anyone down and never causes anyone intentional harm. Love is always an expression of greater good for everyone involved. It is a form of practical spirituality in action. . . Continue reading “What Would Love Do?”